Looking back, it would seem that the previous week was a test of character. Making me conscious of the way I run my personal relationships. And I've realized that lately, I have been in conflict with many others.
I remember refusing to take part in meals and treats just because it comes from an undesirable source. It sure took effort to remain calm and give opinion only when asked for.
There was also a time when I was sharing too much of my thoughts because I felt it was right. Then I had to restrain myself to great discomfort because what I had to say was no longer as welcome as it should have been.
More recently, I recall restricting myself against what I truly feel and and end up being an ill-tempered biatch. Shallow as it was, the fruit of it proved to be the most bitter loss of all.
During heated arguments, I step back, think things through and get back only when all sides have been considered. I am one who consults people, lists the pros & cons to visualize stuff and gathers inputs to get a clear perspective on things. Being a strong believer that things should be planned before being acted upon, it surprised even me that last Thursday, sorry but I babbled earlier than I should have.
Let's all look on the brighter side and hope to make things better.
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